The purpose of this study was to investigate the phenomenon of help seeking by spouses of cardiac rehabilitation patients by eliciting their verbal description of the experience. A phenomenological approach was used to collect data that consisted of individual interviews and focus group interviews. The exhaustive description of the phenomenon of help seeking described how the spouses' views of the illness affected initiation of help seeking. Spouses' stories revealed three time periods when spouses needed help: diagnosis, a time of uncertainty and loss of control; hospitalization, a time of information seeking and vigilance; and homecoming, a time of active help seeking because control is regained. To manage the uncertainty, spouses sought meaningful information to contend with difficulties. Spouses told of the individuals who assisted most, of barriers to seeking help, and availability of resources for support. This study increases health care providers' understanding of spouses' experiences, which may facilitate design of interviews that maximize supports for spouses. Assisting spouses will subsequently improve patients' recovery and facilitate lifestyle changes.